3 ways to

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how much is enough?

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It's exhausting because there's so much pressure to do more.

But it doesn't have to be that way. Talk with your loved ones and set boundaries. Decide how much is enough—or you'll never be done. Learn more

Think about things such as gifts, decorations, parties , meals, and your budget. Define what "done" means to you.

invite honest conversation

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A minimalist approach to Christmas is to simply ... ask them.

Maybe the 5 course meal you prepare every year isn't as important as you think. Maybe they really want more time with you? Learn more

You'll never know if you don't ask. Just like they won't know how overwhelmed you're feeling unless you tell them.

Define Your Priorities

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Don't panic! Instead, plan ahead.

If you need to skip an event, buy one less gift, or make one less side dish—what will it be? This isn't set in stone and you don't need all the answers... Learn more

But just asking the question and knowing that you have options if you need them can make the holiday season more fun and enjoyable.

I'm Jennifer, and I write about my minimalist life with 2 kids.

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