Ready to declutter but plagued by guilt? You’re not alone, and you’re not destined to feel that way forever.
Instead of looking at clutter as a failure or a mistake, I reframed it as an opportunity for learning.
I stopped dwelling on past mistakes and started looking for clues. Why were certain items not being used, or why did they no longer serve their purpose.
My tip is to balance your expectations with the resources you have available. If you’re retired and have minimal responsibilities, then sure—you can spend years researching how to dispose of your items.
Set a time limit that feels reasonable for you (say two hours). Then, during that time, research as many options as possible. You might want to look into recycling facilities and donation centres.
I think so many of us struggle with decluttering-related guilt because we struggle with self-kindness and compassion. Over the years, I’ve gotten better at recognising that I deserve to be comfortable and at ease in my home.