Listen to your heart, do more of what you love and let go of all the rest.
Hello and welcome to Day 3 of With Intention, a week-long challenge designed to help you take the first steps towards simple and intentional living!
We’re in the home stretch now and oh my goodness—I truly can’t thank you all enough for being a part of this! It’s so amazing to see the Simply + Fiercely community coming together and supporting each other. Seriously, this is what I dreamed about when I started this blog so thank you, thank you, thank you! ❤️
As a quick reminder, I’m Jennifer and I created this challenge to help people live with more intention. If you’ve been stuck on auto-pilot, going through the motions every day but not truly living, then I want something different for you.
Imagine crafting a life with more of what matters and less of everything else. How good would that feel?
I get it. You’re busy and somehow, the things that matter most to you always end up on the back burner, right?
Things like quality time with family, hobbies and passions you once enjoyed, going on adventures, learning new things and of course, self-care.
Whatever it is that matters most to you, I’m willing to bet that somehow, they’re the first things to go when life gets busy…
But what if you had the clarity and confidence to change that?
I’m here today to share what I’ve learned because I truly believe if you have an open mind and an open heart, then anything’s possible. ✨
These are powerful questions that, unfortunately, we often forget to ask ourselves. We’re so caught up with working hard that we sometimes forget to ask ourselves what we’re working for?
So instead, we stay busy and keep hustling—until one day, we look in the mirror and see a stranger staring back. Our lives feel unrecognisable and we’re left wondering how things got so off track.
If this has happened to you, taking the time to think about your vision for the future is a great first step and it will definitely help you correct your course—but you can’t stop there. You must follow through with intentional action, which is what we’ll be talking about today.
WHAT TO EXPECT: During this challenge, I’ll take you through the pivotal moments of my personal journey towards simple and intentional living. You’ll find my stories, the lessons I learned and also simple activities YOU can do to live With Intention.
“Ladies and gentlemen, as we start our descent, please make sure your seat backs and tray tables are in their full upright position.”
I looked up with a start as the announcement was made.
This is really happening, I thought … after 16 months away, I was less than an hour from returning to Australia. I released a deep breath I didn’t know I was holding and looked out the window, my mind racing in anticipating of the job ahead.
Of course, after my last update, I’m sure you’re curious about how I ended up on this plane. After all, the last time we spoke I had just arrived on my mother’s doorstep—broke, single, and unemployed—with absolutely no idea what my future held for me.
Well, the truth is I could write an entire book about those 16 months! It started with long days spent working double shifts at a local restaurant and then, somehow, it morphed into a whirlwind romance and a six month trip through South East Asia, on the tightest budget imaginable.
It was an incredible experience (and maybe one day, I’ll tell you all the details) BUT the truth is, it’s not the real story here.
I know, I know.
You probably think I’m crazy (especially when I tell you that I’m now happily married to that whirlwind romance 😉) and of course, I’d be lying if I didn’t admit that those months had a major impact on me.
But they didn’t change my life.
If anything, it was really more of the same—more avoiding reality and more running from my problems. Sure, it was a lot of fun but I knew that one day, the fun would come to and end … and then, I’d be right back where I started from.
Which brings us to Monday, the 1st of July 2013…
As I put away my tray table and fastened my seatbelt in preparation for landing, I realised I’d come full circle. I’d been away for more than a year and during that time, I’d done a LOT of thinking and self-reflection.
I had a clear picture in my mind of the life I wanted for myself and deep in my heart, I knew that I didn’t want to go back to my old ways.
Still, I was scared because I knew that change was going to be hard work. I’d be running for over a year and now it was time to face my responsibilities head-on: I was deep in debt, I was unemployed and I didn’t even know where I was going to live.
I could feel how easy it would be to go back to my old ways—working too much, shopping too much, living a busy and cluttered life—and this was on my mind as the plane descended through the clouds.
What was I going to do this time?
Was I finally going to change my life?
Or was I going to settle for more of the same …
Today, I want you to ask yourself the same question.
I know that you’re busy. Perhaps even overwhelmed. Or maybe you feel stuck too—and you don’t know how to get “un-stuck”.
I also know that it’s tempting to put the “good day” things on the back burner because sometimes, it feels like we’re just trying to survive life.
I understand the excuses and reasons to wait until tomorrow to start living your best life.
But you know what happens, don’t you?
Weeks pass. Months pass. Years pass.
And nothing changes.
But it doesn’t have to be that way.
I landed in Australia and I took the first steps towards rebuilding my life. I moved to a new city, found a tiny apartment, and went back to work. Slowly and steadily, I started to pay off my debt. I suffered through the daily commute and the many hours of unpaid overtime. On the one hand, it was all so familiar …
… and yet so different—because this time I was committed to my vision.
Every day, I looked for little ways to live my best life. I wrote in my journal. I watched the sunset. I stopped shopping. I started a blog. I made time to call my mum.
Slowly and steadily, I made small changes and over time, these little things became the big things.
But more on that in the final part of the challenge! For now, let’s look at what small changes you can make TODAY to commit to your vision.
Are you ready to take action and start living with intention?
Last time we spoke, you started to think about your personal vision and you told me what a “good day” means to you. This was a powerful first step—you’re starting to define your values and priorities—but if you stop now, you’ll fall short of living with intention.
Today, I encourage you to follow through and think about what small changes you can make today to turn your vision into a reality.
I challenge you to set a timer for five minutes and brainstorm small, intentional ways you can act on the vision you defined yesterday.
The key is to come up with ideas that are so small, you can’t not do them!
Here are some examples:
- If you want more time with friends and family, can you find just five minutes to write an email or pick up the phone?
- If you want to read more often, can you commit to finishing just one page today?
- If you’d love to get more sleep, could you move your bedtime forward just 15 minutes?
- If you want to clear the clutter from your home, can you choose just one thing to let go of?
Write your list and then, when you’re finished, I want you to choose one thing off your list and do it today—no excuses.
It can be big or small but commit to doing something that matters to you.
This is key to intentional living; choosing a direction and then taking the first step, no matter how small.
Be sure to let us know in the comments what action you’re taking today so we can cheer you on (or hold you accountable!). 😉
Then keep your eye out for Day 4 of the challenge, because I’m going to share with you my secret for making simple and intentional living a lifestyle—this is KEY to following through and creating long-term change.
All the best,