When I first started experimenting with minimalism, about five years ago, I had no idea what my journey would truly look like.
Of course, I had a few expectations—a gorgeous but functional capsule wardrobe, an uncluttered, easy to clean home, and a much healthier bank balance—but looking back now I realise I really didn’t understand the fundamental ways a minimalist lifestyle would change me.
Chances are if you’re reading this, then you’re at least curious about what minimalism has to offer, but perhaps you’re still on the fence. Maybe you have questions like:
- Is minimalism anything more than decluttering and a tidy home?
- Is it really worth the time and effort?
- And perhaps most importantly—can minimalism truly change my life?
While I can’t speak for everyone, I can say my answer to these questions is a resounding yes. Embracing minimalism is without a doubt one of the best choices I’ve ever made.
Today I’m going to explain why and share a few of the many ways minimalism has transformed my life, so if you’re feeling uncertain about getting started, or in need of motivation to continue on your minimalist journey, keep reading—this post is for you!
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HOW MINIMALISM CHANGED MY LIFE
WHAT A SIMPLE, CLUTTER FREE HOME ACTUALLY MEANS
“Clutter is no more than postponed decisions.”
– Barbara Hemphill
Let’s start with that picture in your mind of a simple, clutter-free home and break down what it really means.
Before I became a minimalist, my home was overwhelming and a constant source of anxiety. It was more than just the ongoing battle to keep it clean (although that was definitely part of the problem); it was also the way all my stuff served as a constant reminder of my never-ending to-do list.
You see, the real problem with clutter isn’t your actual things—it’s the decisions they represent.
On any given day, I’d come home after a long day at work and this is what I’d hear:
- Unworn cocktail dresses calling out from the closet—questioning why I’m not going to nightclubs anymore?
- My rarely used sewing machine, hidden in the corner—asking if I’m really serious about DIY fashion?
- Books on overstuffed shelves, wondering out loud—would I ever be reading them again?
My stuff was asking tough questions, but I wasn’t ready to answer them because doing so would require being honest with myself.
The truth is, it’s hard to admit to ourselves that we aren’t going to do all the things that we want to, or when our priorities and lifestyles have changed. Instead, it’s easier to hold onto your stuff, just in case, and to go on with your life.
Or so I thought. The truth is the things you own either contribute or take from your life; there is no middle ground and my possessions were slowly robbing me of my peace of mind.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN ALL THE CLUTTER GOES AWAY?
Late last year, in preparation for a seven-month overseas trip, I did what I think will be my final “big” declutter—although time will tell! (You can read about my early experience with minimalism here.)
I truly dug deep, pulling out those last few boxes from under the bed, sorting through our mysterious junk drawer, and emptying the very back of the cupboards. After that final round of letting go, I now feel confident saying that everything I own is either functional or beautiful. I am (officially) clutter-free!
(2019 update: I still consider myself clutter-free but I’ve since learned there is no “end” to minimalism; instead, it’s a repeated daily choice!)
So how does it feel?
As you probably expect, there are certainly practical advantages to having a minimalist home. My house is tidy and very easy to clean. Everything has its place, so finding things (and putting them away) is stress-free. I don’t waste any time making decisions about where to put things or what to keep.
But the benefits of living in a minimalist home go far beyond housework and a tidy aesthetic.
The most important change is the way I feel when I walk in the front door. Before minimalism, my home left me feeling exhausted and I felt like I was carrying a heavy weight on my shoulders but I feel completely different now.
My home is no longer a burden or a source of stress; instead, it’s a blissful retreat that actively supports me and gives me exactly what I need.
Obviously, we all spend a lot of time in our homes so knowing that mine is a source of energy (instead of a drain) has dramatically changed how I feel in my day-to-day life. I’ve definitely noticed an increased sense of ease and joy! ❤️
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BEYOND ‘STUFF’: MOVING TOWARDS INTENTIONAL LIVING
“Live less out of habit and more out of intent.”
The joy that comes from living in a clutter-free home is a reason enough for me to recommend a minimalist lifestyle to anyone—but the good news is, it’s just the beginning.
I’ve learned that minimalism is actually the first step towards intentional living and that’s where the magic really happens!
I’ll explain the connection between the two in just a moment, but first, let me step back and explain exactly what intentional living means to me.
Simply put, I believe intentional living is asking why do you do things—and being happy with the answers (or if you’re not happy, at least feeling empowered to change).
It’s a simple idea, but surprisingly, it’s very often overlooked. For example, before I became a minimalist I made huge decisions about my relationships, my career and my finances without truly taking the time to ever ask myself why.
Instead, I let the momentum of life carry me along and more often than not, I did what everyone else was doing.
- I bought a house that I didn’t really want because it seemed like the right thing to do.
- I stayed in jobs that made me miserable because—again—it seemed like the right thing to do.
- I even stayed in a marriage that I knew wasn’t right for me because … well, you get the picture.
I repeated this process of passively making decisions over and over, and perhaps unsurprisingly—I wasn’t very happy with my choices.
So now, let’s return to minimalism.
HOW DID MINIMALISM LEAD ME TO INTENTIONAL LIVING?
When you’re decluttering your home, you start developing a method of deciding what stays and what goes. For example, imagine you own five pairs of jeans but you only want to keep one pair. You’d probably start by thinking about what you need from your jeans by asking questions, such as:
- What’s more important – style or comfort?
- Which pair do I feel the best wearing?
- What style best suits my lifestyle?
Next, you’d reflect on the answers and make a mindful decision about which pair is the best fit for your life—makes sense, right?
Repeat this process over and over and your brain begins to think differently about decision-making.
You start questioning the value of your “stuff” and the role it plays in your life—and with time, this way of thinking goes beyond the physical and spreads to relationships, mindsets, and how you spend your time.
Without realising it, you’ve embraced intentional living!
A PRACTICAL EXAMPLE: RETHINKING MY CAREER
To help connect the dots, let’s look at a practical example of how minimalism and intentional living have come together to change my life: my career.
It’s a long story but here is a quick summary of the past five years:
- Before minimalism, I spent lots of time feeling stuck in jobs I hated.
- My finances were out of control; I was in debt and living paycheque to paycheque.
- When I discovered minimalism, I downsized my home and car, gave up shopping, and reduced my cost of living by more than 50%.
- I became debt-free, saved a nest egg, and for the first time had breathing space to start thinking about my career choices.
- Intentional living inspired me to get back to basics and to question what a career really meant to me.
- I realised that professional “success” (in the traditional sense) didn’t really matter to me and I had only been chasing it because it was I thought I was supposed to do.
- I gave myself permission to step back and do what felt right for me, even if it meant challenging the status quo.
- I quit my secure, full-time job and I now do casual, short-term assignments when it suits me. This flexibility has allowed me to travel around the world and to start this blog.
- (2019 update: This blog has now grown into a business in its own right!)
It took quite a few years for all these changes to take place but I’m sure I’d still be stuck at step one, trapped in a job I hated if it wasn’t for minimalism.
So going back to the questions at the start of this post: is minimalism worth it? And can it change your life?
In my case absolutely—and keep in mind this is only one part of my life! Minimalism has also transformed how I spend my free time, my health and wellness, and my relationships.
It’s been an amazing transformation … but there’s still more to love about minimalism.
THE GREATEST GIFT: MINIMALISM + HOPE
I know this post is getting really long, so if you’re still reading this—I really appreciate it! I’ll wrap things up shortly but I really couldn’t hit publish without addressing the most important thing minimalism has brought into my life.
HOPES + DREAMS
You see … growing up I was always a daydreamer. I’m very fortunate that I was raised in a family that taught me to believe anything is possible and this relentless optimism served me well throughout my life.
It carried me through difficult times (like the passing of my younger brother) and inspired me to go on an amazing adventure (like moving overseas alone).
But somewhere along the way, as my life became more cluttered, I started to lose my ability to dream.
Thoughts of exploring and learning new things were too often crushed by the weight of my responsibilities.
- Maybe I could move to Thailand! … but what would I do with all my stuff?
- Maybe I could study to be a yoga teacher! … but how I could study AND afford my mortgage?
- Maybe I could start my own business! … but where would I find the energy when my life’s already so busy?
So little by little, I stopped dreaming and instead, I told myself to grow up and accept that life wasn’t always going to be a great adventure.
And this is where I was when minimalism found me; a little hopeless, living on autopilot and stuck just going through the motions. Without dreams to inspire me, I felt suffocated and trapped.
But fortunately, I found that as I decluttered my life, my old self reappeared! Looking back, I know I’m not exaggerating when I say that minimalism gave me my life back.
It was a truly priceless gift and now, at 35, I feel as hopeful and optimistic about my future as I did in my early twenties. I don’t have my life all figured out—not by a long shot—but I feel in my heart that I’m living true to myself and that anything’s possible.
What do you think? Are you sold on minimalism? Or if you’re already a minimalist—how has it changed your life? Let me know in the comments! xo
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