If you asked me what’s the one most important skill I could share with someone seeking to live a more intentional life, my answer would definitely be how to start journaling.
Journaling is a life-changing habit that:
- empowers you to live true to yourself
- teaches you to make more intentional choices
- grounds you when you feel overwhelmed or out of control
… and so much more! Without a doubt, creating a journaling habit is one of the best things I’ve ever done for myself and it’s a powerful tool for simple and intentional living.
Keep reading to learn more about the benefits of journaling and how to start journaling—plus get my top journaling tips and resources!
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Why You Should Start Journaling
First of all, let’s talk about the purpose of journaling—what’s it really all about?
For some people, it’s about colourful pens and washi tape, and for others, it’s a way of recording your daily activities (“Dear Diary” style)—but ultimately, no matter how you format it, journaling is about self-awareness.
You should start journaling because, as the saying goes, it can be hard to see the forest for the trees. When we’re busy, we’re consumed by our daily tasks and it’s easy to lose sight of what’s important.
Journaling helps combat this short-sightedness by encouraging us to step back and consider the big picture.
Think of it like carrying out a research project about yourself; you’re observing your actions and your feelings so you can get to know yourself better. Ultimately, this self-awareness is the key to getting off the treadmill and living an intentional, meaningful life.
Here are a few more specific ways journaling has helped me.
3 Ways To Use A Journal
There are literally thousands of different ways to use your journal (if not more!) but here are a few specific ideas that have made a big impact on my life.
TO DEFINE WHAT MATTERS
Before I started journaling, I didn’t have a strong sense of who I was or what I wanted out of life. Vaguely, I knew I wanted to be “successful” and this drove me to work harder and spend more, but I didn’t have a clear picture of what I was trying to achieve.
I’d never questioned what success meant to me and it was this lack of clarity that got me into trouble. Because I couldn’t define success, I could never achieve it, so nothing I did was ever enough—it was like a race without a finish line.
Journaling helped me change this. I started writing regularly, reflecting on my feelings and asking questions about how I wanted my life to look and feel.
As I gained clarity about what matters most, I was able to better align my actions with my values and began making more intentional decisions with my time, money and energy.
TO UNRAVEL YOUR FEELINGS
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realised that I’m a highly emotional person and if I’m not careful, I can let my feelings rule my life.
To be clear—I don’t think we should ignore our emotions. We should absolutely listen and learn from then BUT this doesn’t mean we should react to every emotion.
This is where my journal comes into play— when I’m feeling a strong emotion, I use my journal as an outlet to explore my feelings and understand my emotions (instead of acting impulsively).
For example, through journaling, I’ve learned that if I’m feeling angry or frustrated, it’s often my body’s way of letting me know I’m in desperate need of self-care.
This is often hard for me to realise when I’m overwhelmed with emotion— but when I write things down, it becomes so much clearer!
TO EXPLORE + EXPERIMENT
Finally, journaling is a wonderful way to explore and experiment with new ideas. For example, when I found out I was pregnant, I started thinking about what my working life would be like once my daughter was born.
Would I go back to my old job full-time? Or work part-time? Would I find a new job? Or could I work for myself?
Of course, the future is always unknown, but journaling can help us explore different scenarios.
I considered the best and worst possible outcomes, how I’d feel in each situation, and asked myself what I could or couldn’t live with.
I realised there were some risks I was willing to take, and also some sacrifices I wasn’t willing to compromise on. Journaling helped me understand my options so I could make an intentional and informed decision.
For thos of you who are wondering, I decided to take the leap to self-employment. You can read more about how I made my career transition here.
How To Start Journaling
Hopefully, by now I’ve convinced you that journaling is a life-changing habit and you’re ready to get started! If so, here are my top tips on how to start journaling:
First and foremost, relax and let go of any ideas about doing it the “right” way— because when it comes to journaling, there’s no such thing! Your journal is a personal space for you to use however you see fit.
After that, just get started. The scariest thing about journaling is that first blank page. I know it’s intimidating but once you’ve put ink to paper, there’s no going back
I have one friend who actually recommends drawing a quick scribble on the first page to help break the ice! Or if you’re not that brave, a “safer” option is to write the date at the top of the page.
Next, decide what you want to write about. A great way to begin is to write “morning pages”, which is a term used by Julia Cameron of the Artist’s Way (affiliate link) to describe stream of consciousness writing.
She calls it “morning pages” because she recommends writing three pages every morning but if you’re just getting started, don’t worry about filling three pages. Just start writing whatever is on your mind (even if you write “blah, blah” or whatever). Don’t overthink it—just keep writing!
If you want more structure, here are some more ideas of what to write about.
What to Write in a Journal
If you don’t know what to write about, a great place to begin is by asking questions. My favourites include:
- How do you feel right now?
- Why do you feel that way?
- How do you want to feel?
- What can you do to feel that way?
Alternatively, imagine you were having a conversation with a close and trusted friend—what would you want to talk about? Try talking to your journal like you would a trusted friend (because I promise that with time, it will start to feel that way!).
There are also some great ideas of what to write in a journal in this post about how to use your journal for self-care.
If you’re still not sure what to write about, try using journal prompts. There are a ton of lists online and this is one of my favourites. Another option would be to use a guided journal.
My Favourite Journaling Resources and Supplies
If you’re new to journaling, a guided journal is a great place to start.
My personal favourites are Today I Affirm by Alexandra Elle (affiliate link) or any of the journals by Breathe Magazine (affiliate link) (I personally have the list one (affiliate link) and a summer one that isn’t listed online.)
If you want to invest in a nice journal, my personal favourites are by Moleskine (affiliate link) —they are beautiful and timeless. You’re also spoiled for choice because there are so many different colours, sizes and designs.
As far as pens, I was given a Lamy Safari Rollerball pen (affiliate link) for my birthday last year and it’s a dream to write with! Plus it’s refillable so if you’re trying to create less waste, it’s a great option.
7 SIMPLE DAYS
Another fun way to get started with journaling is to take my short course, 7 Simple Days.
I created 7 Simple Days for anyone who feels like their life is cluttered, busy or out of alignment. It’s a short course with journal prompts and mini-challenges designed to help you find clarity, define your priorities, and take small, practical steps forward.
Participating in 7 Simple Days every day for a week would be a great way to kick-start a new journaling habit plus it’s a powerful tool for increasing self-awareness and embracing intentional living.
Here are what just a few of the more than 2,500 like-minded souls that have participated in 7 Simple Days have to say about the experience:
“I absolutely loved this! I do really well with interactive journal prompts and challenges. Personally, I would have never have thought of these questions to ask myself. So having them set up already is perfect for me! It was so clarifying and refreshing.” — Morgan
“I always find journal prompts incredibly helpful and some of the prompts you listed (especially the one about getting back into alignment) really struck a chord with me as I had been thinking a lot about that lately.
I also think the course was incredibly professionally and beautifully written. It was light-hearted despite talking about serious stuff and was simple and easy to follow. It is so clear how passionate you are about this kind of thing and it is clear that you really care.” — Ash
More Journaling Tips
Try giving lists a try, they are an excellent way of journaling! If you don’t feel comfortable writing long, in-depth entries in your journal then find something that works for you. Again, there are no right or wrong ways to journal as long as you’re exploring your thoughts and feelings.
Make journaling a special ritual. Try and do it at the same time every day and treat it as a special event, not a chore! Light a candle, make a hot drink, burn incense—whatever makes the experience special for you.
Lastly, be honest with yourself. In order to get the full benefits of journaling, you must be willing to open up. Be vulnerable and remember that you’re writing for yourself and no one else (unless you want to share what you write).
Creating a Journaling Habit
Finally, one of the most important things to know about journaling is that you need to stick with it. The more you write, the easier it will become and the more you’ll notice the benefits.
Here are a few tips on creating a journaling habit:
- Try habit stacking, which simply means tacking your new habit (journaling) onto an existing habit. For example, do you make coffee every morning? If so, try keeping your journal next to the machine and taking a few minutes to write each morning while your coffee is brewing.
- Start small—I know that when you first start journaling, it’s exciting and it’s easy to get carried away with elaborate plans … but what happens when you can’t keep up? Odds are you’ll give up. A better option is to start small—just write for a few minutes every day—and see how you go from there.
- Carry your journal with you so that it’s ready when inspiration strikes or when you have a few minutes to kill while waiting for a train!
- Have fun! Journaling is about self-discovery and creativity. Let go of any thoughts of how you “should” be doing it and just enjoy yourself.
Are you a fan of journaling? If so, let us know your top tips on how to start journaling and your favourite resources in the comments! Alternatively, if you’re new to journaling, feel free to leave any questions down below. Thanks for reading!